Are you trying to find out why the narcissist treats you with so much hate and is so focused on ruining your life despite you showing them kindness to end? If you are wondering, hopefully this article will give you some insight to let you know it is not your fault why they ae acting this way and that deep down inside, they do it because they are jealous of all of the amazing qualities you have that they don’t. Read below to find out the top 5 reasons the narcissist wants to destroy you and hates you.

1. Narcissists will often target individuals who they view as strong, especially if they feel envy towards that person. Being strong, independent, and confident can all set off a narcissist’s envy. They may feel insecure about themselves and will attempt to break down their victim’s strength by attacking their self-esteem.
2. Although you may have never done anything to the narcissist to invite attack, your refusal to bend to their wishes can still trigger their envy. By showing that you are unwilling to be manipulated or controlled, you are demonstrating that you are strong. This infuriates the narcissist, as it can be a reminder of the lack of strength they possess.
3. The narcissist also instinctively knows that you know who they really are. This is another threat to their ego that they must eliminate. Convinced that you can see them as they really are, they will attempt to undermine your self-worth. The narcissist will use manipulation to make you believe that you are nothing and that nothing you do will ever be good enough.
4. The narcissist will also prey on any insecurities they sense in you. Narcissists view your love and care as a weakness, and they believe that if you show vulnerability or concern for them, they can use it against you. They don’t want to feel obligated to you, so they will use your insecurities as a way to push you away.
5. Finally, if you are successful and outshine the narcissist in any way, they may resort to destroying you. Narcissists can’t bear to feel less important than others, so they will implement any tactic to put you down and make themselves appear superior. Remember that you are a strong and capable person, and that you should never let anyone devalue you.

Overcoming a narcissist can be a long traumatizing battle that should never be attempted on your own. Get the help you need today to be free of the narcissist in your life to rebuild your self-esteem and reclaim your worth. If you need help recovering from narcissistic abuse, are the target of narcissist attacks or need help navigating and removing the narcissists out of your life, life coaching can help you. Please reach out for a free consultation today.

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